Back from visiting my cousin. Mostly it was a few people who'd been at the service. I missed some people like Ruta Lee, who apparently was wearing some sort of huge hat - to which we all need to respond: Does anyone still wear a hat? The answer is a resounding yes, Ruta Lee-wise. I'm told the service was very nice - I was also told that my ex-wife was there - it was predictable, and rather than get the usual withering looks from her I'm glad I wasn't. The only time the withering looks weren't in evidence was when her father died and I went to that funeral - she knows all too well how I feel about funerals, so the fact that I came was meaningful to her.